To worry about mentioning SEN when contacting nurseries?

[SinkGirl]

Trying to find a nursery for my boys (just turning 2). One has some medical monitoring needs (blood sugar) and developmental delays, currently being investigated but possibly related to his vision / some brain damage.

I’m worried that if I mention all this when I contact them, they’ll say they’re full even if they’re not. Is it best to wait until meeting them? Or is it best to weed out those who don’t want to know beforehand?!

He doesn’t have any particularly difficult behaviours (no violence, meltdowns etc) at this stage so it’s just that he’s behind other 2 year olds. He actually has a lovely disposition and is a really happy boy! I’m just worried they won’t want the hassle.

I'd mention it. If they're not able/willing to accommodate him you're better off knowing straight away. Also, if they know they can start putting stuff in place for him.

Oh, I should have added, after discussing it with everyone involved in his care, we’ve decided to try to find somewhere for just one morning a week initially, and then look at increasing it after christmas if it’s working out well - so they wouldn’t be there much time each week initially.

Yes, I think you’re right - makes sense. I know legally they can’t refuse to take them, but I know how little difference that can make!

Speak to the LEA they may identify nurseries used to extra needs

You might find nurseries object more to one morning a week as they would rather have a child for more as it gives them regular time to settle in and get used to nursery.

Yes. Some places want at least two sessions a week - I just feel it’s too much at the moment, especially for one of them, they’ve never been away from us before (apart from a couple of evenings when they were already in bed).

I mentioned it when I was looking for a nursery, I sussed out 3 different nurseries that wasn't the right fit because they wouldn't take him on. Same with dance classes and everything else. When I found one Ds went from a non verbal only just walking toddler to a talking, jumping child.

Once you find the right fit you know it!