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To be shaken by this innocuous dream?

19 replies

Dontbescaredlittlebear · 14/09/2018 10:56

Woke up an hour before my alarm before falling back to sleep and dreaming. The dream is still very vivid a few hours later, which is unusual for me, but why has it upset me dream analysers (expert or otherwise)?
On a tube train - above ground - chatting with a bloke who I knew (but don’t actually). Almost missed my stop and had to rush and then run to make overground connection. Made the train realised I’d forgotten my bag. Got off train before it moved. Tried to find my way back to tube train, but station had grown massively - trains everywhere! Asked a guard, she sent me - running - over a bridge. Just made that train as it pulled away.
Realised it was going in the wrong direction and was actually an old, wooden panelled compartment, full of very posh ladies! Woke up panicky and crying.
What in the name of St Chris is going on in my brain?

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araiwa · 14/09/2018 11:03

Dreams mean nothing

Dontbescaredlittlebear · 14/09/2018 11:06

You can tell by my use of ladies, how rattled I am. Although it does somehow seem to fit them better than women (ingrained associations!)

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Dontbescaredlittlebear · 14/09/2018 11:07

Thanks for taking the time ariawa!

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Nothisispatrick · 14/09/2018 11:07

Sounds stressful, I hate dreams like that! No idea what it means though.

ItscalledaVulva · 14/09/2018 11:11

I often have stressful dreams involving losing something and trying to find or reach it. Just your brain processing stress?

Llanali · 14/09/2018 11:14

I think it’s just reflective of stress in your life. I have a regular dream of turning up to a party naked or going to a conference and getting locked out my room undressed etc.

I have a regular dream of doing a presentation and getting stuck and falling.

They don’t mean anything, I don’t have the slightest fear of public speaking, it’s just stress invading my sleep.

SLoisachtal · 14/09/2018 11:17

I quite often have that kind of dream. Usually involves either mainline trains or the London Underground; it starts with huge difficulties trying to buy a ticket, then I get on an escalator which doesn't go to the platform I want, then I think I've got on the right train - but I haven't - so plan to change trains at the next interchange, but the train goes sailing through and eventually I find myself in the middle of nowhere unable to work out how to get back!

As PPs have said, it's probably just your brain processing stress.

Lucisky · 14/09/2018 11:18

Sounds like a stress/anxiety dream, so are you suffering from these?
The daft thing is about these type of dreams is you can feel so much more anxious than if it was actually happening in real life.

CanIGetARefund · 14/09/2018 11:25

Could the dream mean that a connection with a man (which involves some emotional baggage) is interfering with your life journey? Not sure about the posh ladies. Could it be a warning about a potential future? (No man and in the company of people who look down on you?).

APairofScarletSequinedWings · 14/09/2018 11:27

It was a Lucid Dream Dontbescaredlittlebear. Unless you've been practicing to have them (apparently some people can train themselves to recognise a dream and control it, bit like Inception), it's most likely to happen when you return to sleep after being awake for a little while. I have them frequently, as I have a disrupted sleep pattern, and sometimes they can be upsetting or distressing because they are so vivid.

I had one where I was helping my friends host a large social event (which I do in real life), and I was at South Kensington station with them to meet the group, when my friend pointed out to me that I was in my dressing gown and barefoot. I panicked when I looked at my bare feet, rushed out to return home to change, looked around to see other people had bare feet too, and realised that I was actually still dreaming. It was the only time I knew while still in the dream, but I still felt the upset when I woke up.

You will feel better as the day progresses, even the most vivid dreams I have are gone a few hours later, unless I write them down.

You'll be ok Flowers

GreatDuckCookery6211 · 14/09/2018 11:28

Are you stressed or worried about something in your day to day life OP?

easterholidays · 14/09/2018 11:29

It sounds like a "panicking-because-I'm-trying-juggle-too-many-balls" dream to me, OP. Is that the case in your life just now?

recklessruby · 14/09/2018 11:36

I have variations of your dream involving massive traffic jams, red lights, clocks ticking. Are you stressed about too much to do in too little time? Feeling overwhelmed? Feeling lost and that life is out of control?
My dreams tend to mean I worry about being late (irl I often am rushing at the last minute).

Dontbescaredlittlebear · 14/09/2018 13:56

I suspect you’re all right and it’s stress related - I don’t always recognise it as ‘I don’t do stress’!
It’s been a bit of a slog the past few weeks - preparing for a hobby event, getting DD ready for university (that’s mainly money worries), training for a new volunteer role - on top of full time condensed job, then yesterday heard my holiday in October may not go ahead. And I think I’m brewing an ear infection...
Maybe I’m not dealing with it all as well as I thought!

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SLoisachtal · 14/09/2018 14:02

And the other variation of this dream that I have is that at I'm in central London and needing to get the Tube home. As I do live in London I'm fairly familiar with areas and stations. But in my dreams I find myself walking around roads trying to find the nearest station, but find myself further and further away - usually thwarted by dead-ends.

Dontbescaredlittlebear · 14/09/2018 14:21

It’s been while, but I have had a couple of recurrent anxiety dreams - spanning decades - another London transport one, this time involving buses and subways at Kings Cross that seemed to move endlessly like Hogwarts stairs, and a ‘can’t find my classroom to sit an A level’ one. The latter a good twenty years after I sat my last exam!
But this morning’s felt different somehow, more emotional

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Nalaking · 14/09/2018 14:48

I’ve always had incredibly vivid dreams, usually lucid. Over the last year or so I’ve had the same dream over and over again about being in a terrorist attack, it’s terrifying. I always enjoyed telling my husband about my dreams every morning but now I dread it. (I’m starting to wonder if that’s how I’m going to die and I’m not a morbid person!)

NorthenderNamechanger · 14/09/2018 15:37

You're dreaming of trying to get somewhere or wanting to be somewhere, but not being able to get there or having trouble doing so. The "journey" is symbolic of something going on in your life, which is why you were so distressed by it. Are you having trouble reaching a goal (any sort) in your life right now? Somewhere you'd rather be or something you'd rather be doing?

Clandestino · 14/09/2018 15:39

Dreams may simply reflect stress and anxiety you are going through, the posh ladies may mean insecurity and fear of disapproval. But that's just me, the amateur psychologist.

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