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Friend doesn't want DS seeing me riding a motorcycle

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Gronky · 13/09/2018 19:32

A long term friend has recently asked me to not ride my bike to their home when I visit because her DS (who's 17, I think, terrible for me not to know exactly, I realise) has started to show an interest in motorcycles and she's aghast at the idea of him riding one. It's a shame because the road to her home is a lot of fun and, if anything, I'd have thought the sight of me on one would make it seem less cool to him. I even joked to her that she should take up biking to ruin it for him (her reaction showed this to be a mistake).

I'm going to respect her wishes but it still seems somewhat unreasonable and I really can't see how I'm going to influence him in any significant way. If he's already interested, I'm fairly sure I'm going to get blamed if he does get one and inevitably has an accident (probably not a serious one but almost every new biker will have an accident at some point).

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crazydoglady6867 · 15/09/2018 15:07

Me and DH both ride and I spend hours talking my kids into doing their test and as soon as DS has the spare cash he will I know he will. DD not do much but we love riding and I would never want to try and stop someone having that experience. Those against motorcycles, please don’t think that because your kids don’t ride a MC they are safe on the road, cars are deemed by youngsters as some sort of force field against death, on a Bike they will naturally feel more vulnerable and ride accordingly.

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