my partner and i seperated a couple of years ago [no one else involved either way] and about 5 months ago she told me she was going out for a drink with a man fine ,shes been seeing him and they have become very close still fine [im still single] the point is our young teenage son has been great ?she told him about her new friend about 6 weeks ago and since he quite normally in my opinion has said the odd thing to us both to possibly wind things up I explained that I think a little chat between the 3 of us Mum Dad ans Son was a good idea to see if he was Ok with everything.I have been informed by his Mum that it is not a good time [before their family holiday] then when they were back it is too close to going back to school [she didnt want him getting stressed] but the point of this message is LAST NIGHT A WEEK INTO THE SCHOOL YEAR she introduced her boyfriend to our boys [the other one is only young , QUESTION should we have had the meeting first or am I wrong and secondly in his life up to yet the biggest upheavel was his Mum and Dad seperating and Ibelieve the second would be meeting his Mums first boyfriend. She informed me this morning when dropping our younger one off for his Daddy to take to school. THOUGHTS PLEASE