Hi guys I'm very new to all this so bear with me. I'm 32 (+2) weeks today and I had an appointment with my consultant this afternoon everything so far has been going ok but we've had a conversation about my birthing plan and I was given the option for an elective. I've been thinking about this for while as last year I was pregnant with my dd who decided she wanted to come see the world way to early at 23 (+6) weeks. She put up a fight but sadly left us 12 days later, the delivery was very traumatic for me as I didn't even realise I was in labour until 40 mins before she came, the hospital I was in made so many mistakes it was unreal she lost 10ml of blood when she was born due to not clamping properly and everything was just chaos. Now this time around at least with a section everything is some what more clam and controlled and puts my anxiety at ease at bit more. I told my mother in law what me and my other half have decided and she wasn't very happy, she wanted to be in the room with me when this baby arrives, she's made me feel very guilty and like I'm picking an easy/lazy root. So I guess what I'm asking is am I making the right decision here? Should I listen to her and cancel it all?.