I've had the year from hell with my exh.
Issues with a few things.
Letting our child down.
Not seeing her for weeks.
Lying to me about why.
He has his own money problems of his own making.
He's a narcissist.
However I asked the cms to raise a case for cms as we couldn't agree and he was out of the country (I thought for good and raised in the event he came back which he then did).
He was paying me a really crap amount and I asked the cms to raise a variation which they did and now said he should be providing six times what he was.
I now feel guilty. That I am adding to his money problems. I don't need the money I can support us on my wages. I don't earn a fortune but we are not broke either.
I am BU to feel like this aren't I? I am a soft touch and a worrier.
Can you people let me know your thoughts to see if I am being U taking the money or for feeling guilty about it please.