I had a best friend for about 5 years, he was male, we worked together, did lots together outside of work. Then I met my fiancé, my friend got really jealous and felt pushed out, I admit I did give my partner most of my time at the beginning of the relationship but who doesn’t!? Our friendship wasn’t as strong from then on and he found a new friend who worked with us, she was very strange!! If we was out and he wasn’t replying to her she would say pathetic, attention seeking things to get his attention. I ended up giving up our friendship because I felt like I was fighting to keep him if that makes sense? I end up getting engaged and falling pregnant. If I saw him we would always talk and i always felt like I really missed him as a friend. I knew he was spending all his time with this our girl and me and her really never saw eye to eye. He congratulated me when I had my child and things were civil, now I’ve found out he is actually having a baby with this other girl!! (He always told me he was gay). I bumped into his girlfriend/friend and we had a chat for about 45minutes and it seemed really nice to actually get on and be adults about things! I feel like I’ve grown up a lot since having my child, maybe she has too? Now he’s deleted me off Facebook and hasn’t responded to any texts I’ve sent congratulating him and asking if he wants to have a catch up.. I honestly thought we would all be adults about things? I’ve been with my partner now 4 years so all this happended years ago!! I’m happy he’s happy.. but why would he be ignoring me? It’s really bothering me.. 😩