Hi,
first post, didn't NC because my friends aren't on here.
Anyway I have a tiny bit of a dilemma going on.
I'm a single mum to a daughter, who's 21 and wants to get married. All her life, DD has pestered me to tell her who her dad is. Now that's even more pressing because she wants him to give her away. My problem is that I don't know who it is, there's three possible fathers, please don't judge me, it's a long story and I'll try not to dripfeed.
There was guy number one, whom I met and fell in love with. Everything was perfect until that bastard told me he's going home to get married. I was absolutely devastated and made some decisions I regret today.
Back then I was a singer, one night I met someone else, I tried to console myself, one thing lead to another and...
which brings us to potential father number 3, I met him in Paris and he followed me and we hooked up too, long story short I have no idea who could be her father, I haven't spoken to any of them since they left, they never knew I was pregnant.
AIBU not to tell DD that I don't even know who her father is?
and AIBU to be a bit hurt that whatever I did it's not enough and she desperately wants a father and doesn't want me to give her away? TIA