After having our 2 kids I gained a lot of weight, as did my husband alongside me (sympathy cravings 😂). I've worked hard at the gym and With a diet to get my weight back down, but even though every Monday he starts a diet with me DH gives in by tea time and is raiding the cupboards for more food. I make us all healthy breakfasts, make a packed lunch for his dinner at work with treats and snacks so he doesn't find himself hungry and make us a healthy tea but he just isn't interested in getting the weight off, he drinks full sugar drinks at work and packs of biscuits with his coffees there.
I feel horrible in saying this but he's not as attractive to me as he once was. He never had been small or muscley (he hates the gym lol) but he was perfect to me. I do still find him attractive - I love him, obviously, but it's just different when we're intimate and things.
I don't want to be a selfish cow and tell him he HAS to lose weight or to hurt him by telling him how I feel, he knows I'd like him to diet and lose weight but when I mention it he also says he didn't pressure me - he didn't see me as any different with weight on.
I feel like such a shallow b**tch for wanting him to change but it would be a change in the right direction. Even if it's not for me he doesn't even worry about the effect it's having on his health?
Any advice ladies (or men?)