For not believing him

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MassiveMug · 04/09/2018 18:20

My bf split up with me last week because he has depression and was going through a bad depressive state. He ended it as he said he had no feelings for anything or anyone so needed to be in his own so he could sort himself out for the sake of his DC and job.

However since we’ve split, I’ve noticed he is constantly on WhatsApp and going out a lot.

I did ask him if he was using his depression as an excuse and he had someone else and he said that wa really low of me to say that and denied there is anyone else.

Before he became ill with his depression, everything was perfect and we were making lots of plans but I just can’t seem to shake that feeling that he has someone else.

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Sparklesocks · 04/09/2018 19:09

There’s no possible way you can know. So why waste time and energy on driving yourself mad?

Littlemissdemeanour · 04/09/2018 19:10

There is already a whole thread on this. OP didn’t like what she heard, so here it is again.... hence, reported.

WeirdCatLady · 04/09/2018 19:10

Really OP, why do you care? He doesn’t want to be with you. He obviously tried to let you down gently. Honestly, a six month relationship and you’re like this about it?? Block his number, stop stalking him and get on with your own life. It’s time to stop wallowing and move on

Oysterbabe · 04/09/2018 19:11

I know that it hurts and sometimes focusing on stuff like this helps. It's easier to accept the rejection if he's a lying bastard. But it really doesn't matter a jot. Block him on WhatsApp and Facebook. Move on.

LivingDeadGirlUK · 04/09/2018 19:11

I agree with pp, block him, he doesn't want to be with you regardless of the reason.

NotTakenUsername · 04/09/2018 19:12

You might not like to hear this but your relationship could have been a trigger for his depression.

I read threads all the time here from women who thought they were depressed but after leaving their relationship thing improved dramatically and quicklyz

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MassiveMug · 04/09/2018 19:20

So what if I had a thread in this before Littlemiss maybe I keep coming back for advice as I am struggling to deal with this. If you don’t like it move on to another thread rather then reporting, seriously 😏

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PurpleDaisies · 04/09/2018 19:22

For your own sake, make a clean break from him. Delete all the social media. It isn’t helping you move on.

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