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Parking/NDN

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ScotchEggs · 03/09/2018 21:38

More of a WWYD

So - I've just moved into a house share. We have 2 cars between us, on a quiet road where every house has a driveway. It's a public road with no parking restrictions.

There's only me and one housemate in the house this week. At just after 9pm tonight I heard frantic knocking on the front door. They then started ringing the bell before coming round the side of the house into the garden and banging on the windows. My room is on the ground floor so this was very scary, and, as I wasn't expecting anyone (especially not at this time!), I chose not to answer.

My housemate, who has her boyfriend staying, decided to answer it after a few minutes of knocking/ringing. It was a huge guy who turned out to be one of our neighbours. He was shouting at her to move the car (her boyfriend's) because he wanted to park outside his house. Her boyfriend obliged and ended up having to move his car about a metre (!) so that this guy could park in his special spot. He was NOT parked over a drive/dropped kerb or in anyone's way.

We spoke to the other housemates (who have lived here for a while but are away at the mo) and they said they've had issues with neighbours both sides going mental about their 'spaces' (I.e. the road outside their houses). I can understand it might be mildly inconvenient, but they would literally have to walk an extra few metres - there's loads of space. They apparently get very very angry and have made one of the other girls cry over it before.

This was really scary and my housemate is quite shaken - she wants to write a note asking him not to come round like that again. I'm worried about exacerbating the situation, and the others have said he has anger issues and we won't get through to him.

Sorry for the long post, didn't want to drip feed! Essentially my question is - what (if anything) can we do about this?

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Aprilshowersnowastorm · 03/09/2018 21:39

Next time he knocks report him to the police as a potential intruder. Let him explain his harassment.

MsHomeSlice · 03/09/2018 21:45

next time send the boyfriend to the door.

bet parking knob doesn't make such a fuss then.

c3pu · 03/09/2018 21:48

Just say no. It's a public highway, and if the car is taxed, MOT'd and insured it has as much right to be legally parked as anyone else's car.

If they wont go away, phone the police.

daffodillament · 03/09/2018 21:50

Yes, It's harrassment. Needs logging as not acceptable at all. Cheeky bastard. Who does he think he is !

emmyrose2000 · 03/09/2018 21:58

If someone was banging and bashing on my door at 9 o'clock at night I'd be phoning the police. Unless my house was in danger of burning down at that moment, there's no excuse for that sort of behaviour, especially for something as trivial as moving a perfectly legally parked car.

ScotchEggs · 03/09/2018 22:29

We'll fill in a police statement online tomorrow. I've done one before about a similar incident, the police called me to ask if I wanted them to go and speak to the aggressor. I said no, but I think the answer will be different this time

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ScotchEggs · 03/09/2018 22:31

The thing that worries me most is: a person who thinks it's acceptable to behave like this probably can't be reasoned with

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Havaina · 03/09/2018 22:46

These fuckers are cowards when faced with authority. Definitely file the police report.

Sorry10 · 03/09/2018 22:53

Speaking to the police is a bit OTT
Just put a note through door saying do not bother me again about parking issues.
Just ignore next time, it happens on most street you always get 1 person who is territorial over parking just ignore.

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