Decades ago now, but my dds used to feel 'deprived' (said lightheartedly!) because I wouldn't buy chocolate advent calendars, only trad. paper ones, preferably with glittery snow.
IMO they were lucky to have one at all - siblings and I never even had a paper one.
Last year I bought a lovely trad paper one for very little Gdcs. They loved opening the windows and played with it after all the decorations were taken down.
Agree 100% about going overboard with elves, boxes and God know what. Christmas can still be magical for kids without all that. It certainly was for us. We always put out a mince pie and a tot of sherry or brandy for FC - the idea of him wanting a glass of milk!! -😱 but apart from tree, trad. decorations, and making a wish as you had a stir of the Christmas pudding, that was about it.