Non physical, but mental and emotional. He is controlling, possessive, obsessive, manipulative. I am financially dependent on him. Even my phone bill was put in his name. The car and insurance are both in his name and most of the household bills. We have been together for 10 years. We have two under 5. We are in a council house with both of our names on the lease. I'm a SAHM with no financial dependence of my own. No benefits due to his earnings. I've 'not been allowed' a job.
Every time I try and leave the relationship he completely turns and gets physically upset, apologizing, using the children as emotional manipulation. Says he doesn't know what he will do or how he will live without me. So this stops me.
Even as I'm typing this he's asking me what I'm doing, why I'm typing, what I'm saying.
I don't know what I do now. Can anyone recommend any charities that help in this situation?