Ok so 'd'h has issues at work he does nights so is available for the school run etc.
Last night at work he had an argument with his manager and walked out .
He does have a bad attitude anyway his boss said he was rude and argumentative. But I don't know what he's like a work so can't comment too much.
He wants to look for something else but expects me to create and do his cv so he can apply for jobs.
I refuse to do this. AIBU to refuse?
I work full time and we have 3 kids I have a long commute into work and I'm tired all the time. By contrast he works 4 nights he's off Saturday Sunday Monday and Tuesday all day till 10pm.
I do almost all of the organising and the planning and the mental load.
He expects it all handed to him on a plate .
Eg lunch today I asked what HE was planning on making for lunch today as I don't see why it's down to me alone I'm also veggie and him and the kids aren't.
He said he doesn't like cooking and he's not good at it well I don't like it either!
Why is it all down to me AIBU