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Not included in DH's family WhatsApp group

28 replies

Mnuser212 · 30/08/2018 07:16

My DH's family have never been very fond of me mostly because we do not share the same religion.They have a family WhatsApp group which includes my DH, his siblings and their parents. I feel quite left out especially now that they post pics and videos of my baby and discuss him. When I am in a particularly foul mood i ask my DH to leave the group as they need to acknowledge that I am part of the family too. I do realise that it is a unreasonable ask and don't really expect him to follow through but I would love to hear other perspectives and thoughts on my situation esp as it really stresses me out sometimes ...AIBU?

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Lentilbaby · 30/08/2018 08:34

Cropping you out of pictures is awful!
I'm not on my husband's family WhatsApp group and he is not on mine but we all get on well. I've never thought anything of it. As PPs have said it's the underlying issues that are a problem rather than the group.

Curtainshopping · 30/08/2018 09:24

It sounds like your DH is on your side so I wouldn’t worry about this group being used to criticise you or similar. If you trust him, then there’s nowt to worry about.

DontCallMeCharlotte · 30/08/2018 09:29

My DH isn't on our sibling WhatsApp. I dont think his family even has one. They're a bit old-fashioned. They do stuff like ringing up and - gasp - talking to each other!

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