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Fiancé looking at naked woman

34 replies

Girlnotknown · 29/08/2018 16:06

Is it acceptable for your other half to look at naked pics of women online im talking like pages on Facebook

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queenworkerbee · 29/08/2018 17:22

Sorry meant to say YANBU

QueenAravisOfArchenland · 29/08/2018 17:26

I used to get Filament mag which had nude male centrefolds (along with some v interesting articles).

DH bought me my subscription.

Sailinghappy · 29/08/2018 17:26

Ahhh OP, I wouldn’t be happy either. Just try to put it into perspective though - it isn’t the end of the world either! I’m also pregnant and overly emotional so feel your pain!!! I’d probably have a big “talk” with him (huff) and tel him I want an apology and for him not to do it again. After that, I’d let it go. Hope you’re OK!

WhatToDoAboutWailmerGoneRogue · 29/08/2018 17:28

Yes it is absolutely acceptable; there’s nothing wrong with it.

rainingcatsanddog · 29/08/2018 17:31

If he knows these women in real life - unacceptable.

If these are strangers like a glamour model then acceptable as long as he's still having sex with you

applesisapple5 · 29/08/2018 17:36

Random women who consent to their photos being taken (i.e. Posing) fine.

Women who have been caught through a window, not acceptable.

I'm going to state the bleeding obvious; Maybe speak to him if you're bothered?

Dadsbigsausages · 29/08/2018 17:37

I'd be very embarrassed if DH was 'liking' fb pages of soft porn pics, which do exist on fb under silly lads banter type names. It's so public it wouldn't feel very respectful.

DiagramAlly · 29/08/2018 18:22

If it was a one off, then just ignore it. If, however it's a habitual thing, and it upsets you, then YANBU.

If this is the case, explain how it makes you feel. If he loves you then your feelings will (should) be more important than his own entertainment. If he can't, or won't, stop then I think you need to seriously consider whether he's the right DP for you.

Llanali · 29/08/2018 21:05

I don’t see how it is different at all OP.

It’s women posing on a DJ’s page? How is that different to men posing in Glamour or on the Diet Coke advert? It’s nipples and a chest.

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