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To think that this could have ended badly?

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marriedwithhounds · 29/08/2018 08:46

I was out with my dog for a walk this morning in the local park. My dog is very good with people, cats, etc but quite afraid of other dogs and can be aggressive towards them if they are persistent after the first few sniffs. She was attacked by another dog when she was young (before we adopted her.) I've taken her to training and done as much socialisation as possible with her but I think she's as good as she's likely to get now.

Because of this, I keep my dog on her short lead and always tell other dog walkers that she's not great with other dogs - this is always usually fine, other owner guides their dog away and no drama.

Today, a dog ran over and was trying to play with her. Lovely dog - obviously not the dog's fault! My dog was having none of it and starting to growl and show her teeth. I shouted over to the owner who was quite far off, smoking and having a chat with someone.

She sent her young daughter (around 8-10yo) to grab their dog. This didn't work as obviously the girl was nervous of my dog, who was growling. She also didn't have a lead with her so was just sort of swiping at her dog! I told her not to worry and not to keep putting her hands in, just in case.

I was pulling my dog away but the other dog just kept following. Eventually I left the park, thinking that the other dog would lose interest but it started to follow us down the street. The mum/owner was in no rush to get her dog and the little girl was visibly upset that she couldn't get her dog to come back. The other dog wasn't responding to it's name at all. Eventually, the mum came over and put the dog on its lead but she was quite huffy about it.

AIBU to think that this was a disaster waiting to happen? Surely the adult should be over straight away, putting their dog on a lead if it won't respond to its name?

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9amTrain · 29/08/2018 08:49

Yanbu. The adult was irresponsible. Sending her young daughter and still doing nothing when that didn't work?!

WellThisIsShit · 29/08/2018 08:54

Yanbu, some pet owners, like parents, put their own momentary wants above the needs of the creatures in their care.

Like, the need not to be mauled by a strange dog!

I know you are a responsible dog owner, but she doesn’t know that. She was just trading on that, taking a risk on you and your dog, and your ability to control the situation.

Dontknowwhatimdoing · 29/08/2018 08:59

YANBU, the other dog should have been under control, and certainly not had a small child in charge. That said, there are always going to be irresponsible people out there, so it may be worth walking yours with a muzzle on, to make sure she can't snap. You shouldn't have to, but people often seem to assume if their dog is friendly, they can just allow it to roam as they see fit.

BreakfastAtSquiffanys · 29/08/2018 09:02

Would it be worth getting one of those yellow Nervous Dog harness /leads?

Iseverynametaken · 29/08/2018 09:22

Urgh! This makes me so angry as I went through a similar thing this morning. Morning walk with my 2 on lead. Another big male dog comes bolting from 2 paddocks away up to mine not particularly friendly either! No dog on a lead appreciates being barreled at by another dog. Owner barely in sight either. Sick of this 'but hes/shes friendly' crap from slack dog owners who cant be bothered properly walking their dog so them roam off lead... if you cant control your pet not to bolt off it is sees another animals it shouldn't be off lead. Your totally being reasonable!!

marriedwithhounds · 29/08/2018 10:13

Thanks for the responses - good to know I'm not just being over sensitive!

I think you may have a point about putting a different lead or possibly a muzzle on my dog. I'll look into it!

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