How much is a reasonable donation for a Christening?

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Just that really. I know that it is donation only to the church so no right or wrong amount but I literally have no idea what would be considered an acceptable amount. I am not looking for a minimum, as I think it is only right to pay a reasonable sum but on the other hand, money is quite tight and can't afford to go too OTT! Thanks in advance.

CraftyGin- Catholic priests aren’t paid a salary or stipend- traditionally the Easter and Christmas collection goes to them for their living costs. Any donations from additional services they do is for them too- baptisms, weddings, funerals etc. Catholic Churches tend to leave it to the donator to decide the amount- they believe you cab’t ‘Buy’ a sacrament and would never turn away someone who genuinely couldn’t afford it.

How did this thread turn into a defence of poor practices of the RCC? The OP has s having a Church of England baptism.

Your child getting baptised? I think we put £50 in an envelope. I don't think vicars would get offended if you put £20 in though, it depends what you can afford.

Just asked DH who is an Anglican/C of E vicar. He says baptisms/christening are free.

Though they can charge for the certificate.

Some may suggest a donation amount. (He doesn't, I asked what he thought was reasonable he said 'Oh I don't know...it's a donation...£20?...At least?...')

Some churches may charge for a verger (opening and closing church, clearing up and cleaning) or for heating and lighting or for an organist if used.

@CraftyGin
Catholic priests are paid a monthly and have been for years. They do get to keep the Christmas offering too but it's not their only source of income.

Irrelevant to this thread, but very shocking nonetheless.

My children had their own service each in a C of E church. It isn't our regular church as it's not too local (family church). We gave £50 as a donation - no amount was suggested. Maybe we didn't give enough!

Thanks everyone. We are expecting a lot of guests as DP has a large family and they tend to give quite generously so we will go with £50 donation and £20 to priest personally as it is a seperate service immediately after the main service.

The vicar will not be able to take money from you. The Charity Commission rules are very strict. The money goes to church income via the wardens or treasurer.