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AIBU to say something or U to say nothing? 🙈

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CheesyCurryChips · 27/08/2018 15:21

Ok so I have a small business in Northern Ireland. I’m a catholic. (All relevant)

I’ve a young Protestant friend working for me from time to time, as favour to her, I give her hours when I can. I really like her and I know she thinks of me as big sister - we are more friends than having a work relationship. We always have a bit of harmless banter about the whole catholic/prod thing.

However a couple of other full time staff have complained, showing me screen shots of derogatory things she has posted on Facebook about the pope during his visit. By reading it I definitely don’t think it was banter on her behalf, (I can’t see it so I think she has me blocked from seeing this particular thing), but at the same time I don’t really care - it doesn’t offend me in the slightest but I’m worried about it offending the other customers & staff. I’ve since heard that she posted other such things in the past (again I haven’t seen it)

What do I do? I feel If i say anything, as a catholic, it would be misinterpreted as sectarian / being bitter myself

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goodgirls · 27/08/2018 17:41

Is it really bigoted and sectarian though, or is it just that you don't like it personally?

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