I haven't rtft yet, but on the first 3 pages everyone appears to be squabbling about the amount of tax paid in reference to the OP. However, no amount of extra tax paid will make up for the utter waste of money going on in public and government services that doesn't happen on that scale in other countries I have lived in. Where I have worked in the past, I have seen plenty of money wasted on pointless:
-consultations
-IT systems, which were redundant after a few uses/ turned out to be incompatible with existing soft-/ hardware
-management where leadership was more important
-provision of free 'stuff' that ought to be bought by the public
-time. When you total up the amount of time wasted in pointless meetings and multiply it by the hourly wages people in that meeting get, you often end up paying more in wasted wages than the item you squabble about would have cost.
Our government and public services are far too inefficient and no amount of tax increase is going to make up for the shocking levels of waste I have seen.
By the way, I did have more take-home pay a few years back as a single parent on half the money I am on now. I paid far less childcare (70% paid for through CTC), got WTC top-ups, 25% CT reduction, lower income tax, lower pension payments, lower insurance and less time-poverty that comes with my levels of responsibility now, necessitating other paid-for services or items, e.g. the car I now need (with all its associated costs) for my job whereas beforehand lower levels of responsibility made using public transport the better option.
In fact, everything required to be seen to do my job well now comes with extra cost: I have to stay longer for extra meetings, meaning paying extra childcare, I need to be able to drive to different locations now, need to have access to more equipment at home and I cannot for the life of me get away without looking the part either, so more expensive clothing, regular hairdressing appointments etc. High-earning lawyers I know have to employ cleaners, because the amount of work they do would otherwise not enable them to spend any time with their children. Or pay accountants, as above a certain workload not doing so when you're self-employed leaves you in serious danger of making mistakes in your self-assessment.
I expect that this is what others mean by less take-home pay; your outgoings, which are necessary, but not included when people look purely at tax paid, are completely different once you reach a certain money threshold. And I did have to live a better-off life to understand why all this was necessary and not just an excuse.
And the usual disclaimer: yes, this does not apply to everyone...