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To forward someone an email accidentally sent to me even though the person is no longer speaking to me?

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hellokittymania · 25/08/2018 17:17

I forwarded the email anyway since it was a work email, I didn't see it and unfortunately it was asking for her to write something for a magazine and the date had already passed. But anyway, I sent it to her so at least she can tell them to send her things at the correct email is Address. This used to be a very good friend of mine and we had similar emails. I just thought I would be a good friend and forward it on to her. Even though she is really hateful toward me.

I think I did the right thing. I prefer doing the right thing even if I'm somebody's enemy. Grin

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Ingalia · 25/08/2018 17:23

I think it would depend how important the email was.
You could look at it as you have described, "doing the right thing", or you could look at it as finding a reason to deliberately provoke contact.

PuppyMonkey · 25/08/2018 17:27

Did you send it without adding a note too? I’d have put some short message like “hi, think this might be meant for you, take care etc.”

Forwarding it just on its own seems a bit... cold?

SassitudeandSparkle · 25/08/2018 17:27

So you forwarded an out of date email instead of replying to the sender, pointing out that the address was wrong? No, I don't think that's helpful tbh.

hellokittymania · 25/08/2018 17:31

Puppy, yes I added a very short note. It was from a very high-level magazine, I would have felt very odd contacting them. I feel really bad that I didn't see it before today.

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PuppyMonkey · 25/08/2018 17:35

Ok, then I don’t think what you did was that bad. But yes I’d have also replied to the sender informing them of the error - assuming it wasn’t from some “no reply possible” things. I don’t see why you feel that would have been odd.Confused

teaandtoast · 25/08/2018 17:37

The trouble is, she might think you withheld it on purpose.

hellokittymania · 25/08/2018 17:46

I'll know for next time puppy.

It was a really fancy's Mansi magazine for millionaires. I just got shy. Grin

And toast, I am visually impaired. There are many things she throws at me when she's angry, but I doubt she would do that. She knows I really can't see. I do miss a lot of emails actually had the messages.

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hellokittymania · 25/08/2018 17:49

And if this happens again, how would I word the email? Dear sir? I think this email was intended for somebody else?

Should I have given them her email address? Wouldn't that have been even weirder?

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HollowTalk · 25/08/2018 17:50

If she's being hateful towards you then you shouldn't feel any need to communicate with her at all.

hellokittymania · 25/08/2018 17:54

Hollow, it has been a very tricky situation over the years believe me. Sometimes, I don't know what to do. That email looked very important though, and I'm sure they will want to contact her in the future,

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theWarOnPeace · 25/08/2018 17:54

How on earth did you get email addresses get mixed up by, I’m assuming, a third party? Or is it a colleague?

SassitudeandSparkle · 25/08/2018 17:55

I'd reply to the sender saying that the address is wrong, but you know the intended recipient so will pass it on and then bcc (blind carbon copy) the ex-friend in so she can see the email but they won't have her email address. Then she can contact them if she wishes.

hellokittymania · 25/08/2018 17:57

OK, thank you sparkle. If ever this happens again, that's what I will do.

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