Found out last week that I'm pregnant. It's unplanned & has been quite a shock. It'll be my 3rd baby. Youngest is 16mnts & I've just started a new job two months ago which I'm trying to prove myself in. I am feeling pretty gutted to be honest, I'm really worried about work & telling my boss. I know I'll come around eventually & be delighted, but for now I'm shocked & just coming to terms with things. I'm also exhausted & ironically only got the baby to stop breastfeeding 4 days before my positive test.
Anyway, DH met a few mates last night for a few drinks. He admitted this morning that he told one of them our news. Apparently this lad revealed that his wife is pregnant, due in Dec, so say 5/6 mnts gone & decided to tell his mate. I'm 5 weeks gone. I specifically asked him to keep it between ourselves until after my first appointment, (which he agreed to, two days ago) as last time, he lasted one day with the news before telling his sister, who in turn told her daughter, who told her boyfriend etc etc. I told my friends & family @13wks.
Im so annoyed that he has so little respect for my wishes. I feel, being the person carrying the baby, I should have a right to my privacy.
I called him untrustworthy, and he says I need to 'relax and stop being dramatic'.
My point is that he has no regard for me or my feelings.
His response was that I shouldn't tell him things.
What an arse. AIBU or dramatic?