Ok so this is my first post.my heads in tatters.met this guy 3 and a half years ago in the September,he was great company though he told a lie about his age on the first date.tbh I did see he was older than what he said however he said he was cleared to say his real age in case it was an issue for me.it wasn't an issue and we got on great.we were engaged on winter solstice and I met his kids and ex partner etc.he painted a picture of being wronged by her and her current partner (slept with each other behind his back) I was told so many things etc.we were meant to be married last August and I cancelled it as money needed to go elsewhere and besides the fact he ran out on me so many times.hes aggressive after drinking etc.i feel lied to and deceived no end.i know he's been good in other ways and he did move all the way up country from Hertfordshire.as time went on he has ousted me from going down there with him,he's bitched about me and slagged me off.im no longer welcome that.he walked out on last year's holiday and ended up back down south.this year we went away again for two weeks and he walked out again only a few days into the holiday and buggered off back down there and then sleeping in his car back in our village.hes offered to bring me home but now he's calling me a slag and a narcissist and saying how I've hurt him and betrayed him.hes demanding to know all details from my past.everypne I know agrees that nobody is privy to anyone's past,if you tell someone it's up to you.i have shared much with him and he throws it in my face yet all his sordid and vile past I've dealt with and seen it for what it is...past.im not sure why he's doing it but me and my daughter's came here with him and we now have to struggle home with all the cases etc.im so stressed and feel as though it's all my fault and to have him back I should share every single detail of what's happened before him.no idea what to do but my heads in tatters.