I'm relatively new to road cycling and regularly head out for a 35-40 mile trundle at the weekends with 1 or 2 other people. However as none of us are entitled twats, we always cycle responsibly (even if we are wearing padded lycra shorts (for comfort) and a lycra top (helps wick the sweat away from the torso ) ).
I never cycle on pavements and only on dual aspect paths when they are clear. If not clear we reduce our speed !
Always say thank you with both raised hand and vocally to motorists who have not tried to squeeze past but have waited ten seconds to overtake safely. Wear hi vis yellow jacket or bright pink top so we can be seen.
Plot our routes to avoid busy roads and hopefully cause as little disruption as possible.
We do take part in the organised sportives and I do feel guilty about my part in the disruption for local residents. However, does the good outweight the bad? How many of the people taking part, of all shapes and sizes, wouldn't have been doing any exercise if it wasn't for these organised events?
I'm also an ex horse rider and a motorist. As a rider I used to position myself midway between the gutter and the central white line (if there was one!) which meant a) the motorist could see me sooner and slow down to pass safely and b) if they did decide to squeeze past, I had space to move to the left and avoid an accident.
As a motorist, I try to drive in a considerate fashion to every other road user, overtaking safely and leaving plenty of room, whether its another car, a lorry, a walker, a dog walker, a cyclist, horse and rider, milk float etc.
I have come to the conclusion that there are entitled idiots on all modes of transport but that as a nation we are getting more angry with other people who we perceive as hindering our progress through the day. Dont know what the answer is though!