To think people need to learn to fuck off and mind their own business?

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We are currently on holiday- Me, DH, DSD (16) DSS (11) and DD (2).

We are staying in a small complex of holiday apartments- there’s four in total. We are on the ground floor alone and there’s two families upstairs- one who is Mum/Dad and 2 kids under 10 (family 1) and another family- grandparents, Mum/Dad and 3 kids who’s son is the same age as DSS (family 2)

This morning DSD suggested she took DSS and DD to the pool so me and DH could have some alone time. It’s a shared pool between the 4 apartments.

Anyway DD was having a nap in her pushchair by the pool, woke up and DSD discovered she had done a massive poo and went to change her. DSS was still playing in the pool with

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DSS was still playing in the pool with family 2s children, who were being supervised by their grandparents.

Once DD was changed, DSD let her have a run about (supervised!) with just a nappy on. The grandfather asked her to put some clothes on her as “there are children present and you never know who is lurking about”. DSD pointed out she is a 2 year old and she is perfectly capable of protecting her sister from potential pedophiles. Clearly this aggravated the gentleman because he went on a massive rant at DSD who shut him down, told DSS to get out of the pool and came back to the apartment with them both.

DSD was very upset because she has only recently started looking after DD on her own as she hasn’t been confident enough to do it until literally a couple of weeks ago.

DH went and knocked on the family’s apartment to have a word with the gentleman and was told to “fuck off” in front of his grandchildren (who he wanted to protect from a naked 2 year old )

I’m pissed off about it majorly and it’s put a dampener on our last day.

AIBU?

snapped and farted

Dum, Dum Dum...……..

I'd sunbathe topless tomorrow.

I'd suggest a couple of rounds of water all round. Kind of like a peace offering..,

This man sound like an unstable idiot. Tell DSD she handled the situation really well and you are proud of her. Tell both kids that if this man speaks to them again they are to politely direct him to you and your husband.

I'd be highly praising dsd who handled it perfectly.
Then just carry on as normal. A 2 year old does not need to be covered up (apart from nappy).

Ignore them all! Don't let them ruin your holiday.

And reassure your DSD that you are really happy with how she looks after your DC, that she coped really well with the situation. There will always be some numpty...

I’d tell the man in question that if he ever upset my DSD again, being a nosey fucker would be the least of his worries!

What kind of dickhead verbally batters a teenage girl?

Oh your DSD sounds ace btw.

Cover up what? Her bare chest? Only if they cover up their DGC bare chests too.

Sending lots of love and cheers to your DSD. I don’t know how old she is but this would have upset me when I was looking after my younger siblings, and she handled it exactly right.

Sorry she is 16 and I can’t read!

I can't understand from your post if DD was naked or had a nappy on?

Once DD was changed, DSD let her have a run about (supervised!) with just a nappy on

SmartyPants it’s in the OP

Yes, some people do need to mind their own business. Why does a 2yo need to cover up ffs.

Your dsd did the right thing

I'd be worried about this, ahem, gentleman. Was he worried he might, you know, feel temptation?

Also, on Trending it shows as "To think people need to learn to fuck".

Constantly take photos of him, that'll really wind him up!

How can anyone think there's a problem with a toddler running round in her nappy? It's only her wee chest exposed!!

Your DSD sounds brilliant (do you hire her out?)

Tell her to ignore the stupid man and thank her for doing a brilliant job looking after her siblings