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To think married colleague has a crush on me

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Dotheflossyfloss · 24/08/2018 12:52

The first time I saw him I thought he was a bit awkward around me. Didn't think much of it really.
I was asked to work with him one day and his face dropped. Anyway we were working away fine, we got on ok...run of the mill stuff.
The next day I came in to work he couldn't take his eyes of me. He kept looking but when I looked at him he looked away really quickly. I caught him through the day...this went on for three days. He smiled a lot when passing too.
Now he is totally ignoring me. Looks away when I'm passing, doesn't say a word to me. Doesn't join in conversation when I'm there and he's avoiding me.
I know he's married and has kids.
I must admit I do find him attractive but obviously I wouldn't go there because he's married...big no no.
I somehow feel a bit off that I am being totally blanked though. I kinda wanted to ask him if everything is ok but then i think I better leave it.
Aibu to think he has a crush on me and he's trying to distance himself from me because he's married?
I haven't done anything to piss him off.
It will be awkward next time I have to work with him.

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Dotheflossyfloss · 24/08/2018 16:06

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LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 24/08/2018 16:10

What does it matter? Be professional and keep to work matters only. Simple. Stop making it up in your head into something it isn't.

He's off limits. You know that, you acknowledge it so put him out of your head.

Have you posted about this very recently under another name?

PaulRuddislush · 24/08/2018 16:13

This is very familiar. A similar thread on the same immature nonsense was running last week.

BathroomLights · 24/08/2018 16:16

A few similar threads last week, not just one!

mothertominibeasts · 24/08/2018 16:18

So you fancy him, was thrilled that he was throwing glances your way, but is now pissed because he is ignoring you.

Maybe he realised his glances were being construed as something else and backed off

Just leave him alone and get on with your work.

Raffles1981 · 24/08/2018 17:12
Biscuit
MinorRSole · 24/08/2018 17:15

He didn't want to work with you and actively ignores you - unless he's 14 I'd say he can't stand you rather than fancies you

Thatsfuckingshit · 24/08/2018 17:16

Why do you keep posting about this?

Why does it matter?

whatwouldkeithRichardsdo2 · 24/08/2018 17:17

Yep. Refer to other thread. 🙄

PositiveVibez · 24/08/2018 17:27

Omg. You again!!

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