The background to this is that I am generally feeling bad about my marriage.
I was out late at a drinks event. Throughout, my male colleague seemed very concerned about whether I enjoyed myself. He especially seemed concerned about whether I would continue to stay out. He also said a few (possibly drunk) things that could be construed as being concerned about specific things I was interested in. We are quite good friends in a platonic way.
I have been unhappy with my marriage and I feel like escaping. I do not want to have an affair. But I am quite freaked out about this. Help! Am I just being crazy in my interpretations? I am basically middle aged so I assume I am not even that attractive???