Disabled access is still shocking across the UK.
Lifts - where they exist, are often hard to locate, doors too narrow, (I can't actually access my local job centre/benefits office/library, because the lift down is too narrow for my chair and is the ONLY access) and often out of order.
Of course if a lift is your only way in or out of somewhere and theres a fire and you can't use the lift, the option available to wheelchair users is ... die.
Surfaces - gravel, potholes, steep cambers, rough ground, uneven ground, fucking decorative fucking cobbles.... all a pain in the arse and everywhere else for wheelchair users.
Doorways - often too narrow or require the other half of the pair of doors unlocking sometimes no one knows how or the key is lost, steep steps or lips at door thresholds are another issue that some won't get over.
Doors - too heavy, no button, if there is a button its in a stupid fucking place you cant reach or have to be IN the way of the door as it opens.
Ramps - where provided are very often totally unsafe, too steep, to narrow, slippery.
Disabled toilets - I've come across many i cant GET in without abandoning my chair to do so, and plenty that once i do get in are not usable (for example, toilet too high off the floor!) Barely any toilet facilities are fully compliant iwth the law and some are inaccessible and/or dangerous.
Public transport - a fucking nightmare, not in most places something one can rely on for regular transport if you have any sort of deadline or appointment time - as most of us do.
Seating and counter tops - too high, too many fixed booths and high bar counter bar stool seating areas.
Aisles/spaces between tables - too narrow/small, risk knocking over stock or having to ask loads of people to move.
As a wheelchair user, EVERY trip out has to be planned in advance if you don't know the place you are going to extremely well. You cannot be spontaneous without runnign the very real risk of things going tits up.
You are expected to book assistance on train transport in advance so no spontaneity there, but its more than likely it wont actually turn up to get you on or off the train.
You phone ahead to restaurants and stores to find out if they are accessible, they will almost always tell you tehy ARE then you get there and find what they mean is, they have a portable ramp that is too short and narrow for your chair, or they don't have a toilet, or the toilet they do have is used as a storage area for beer kegs and high chairs or..... so many things!
Basically going out, as a disbled person, means shit will go wrong, you won't be able to get in where you want, you'll need help and won't get it, or be left stranded and you'll have to change plans at the last minute, it will be very stressful and craptacular.
These things are not one offs or raritys, when you see them go viral on facey etc, its easy to think they are - this is daily, this is all the time, every time, relentless shit.