I’m 36 with a four year old and I work full time.
Two months ago I had a lens replaced in one eye, through the NHS. Since then I’ve been off work recovering.
I wish I’d never had the op, my eyesight has completely changed; it’s shit - it’s like I’m walking around with a magnifying glass over one eye all the time. I can’t focus properly and I’m having to re-learn how to do see and do even the simplest things. I get headaches reading/using computer/phone/watching TV/when I’m am in an unfamiliar place. I don’t feel confident enough to drive with this eyesight.
Due to the problems I’m having I genuinely think I might have to quit my job (histology lab).
(After a lot of aggro) I managed to see the surgeon last week (had community discharge at high street optician, so hadn’t seen him since) and he said I’ll “get used to it” and that I was being a bit dramatic when I said I might have to quit work. Although he was patronising and dismissive he said he’ll send me for a second opinion, as on paper my eyes are above average and he’s not sure what to suggest.
My eyesight and life have completely changed for the worse, I feel my lifestyle (work/young family) wasn’t taken into consideration when suggesting I had the surgery, we didn’t discuss any other options I might have had, I wasn’t made aware of what changes would happen (I knew risk of sight loss due to surgery), I’ve been patronised and now have to wait however long to see someone else. Two opticians and 3 doctors/nurses all questioned why I even had the op - which has made me question the surgeon’s judgement.
I’m on SSP from today also (which stops in November) - so if I have much more time off to recover I won’t be able to afford mortgage/childcare/etc.