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Am I wrong to not go round to my parents house?

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Crazycat2000 · 23/08/2018 10:14

I've never had the best of relationships with my parents since very young they were emotionally abusive to me. Lately though maybe the last year or so I haven't been round at all reasons for this is that I'm never told anything to do about the family, we get no help at all but both my sisters 1 older and 1 younger do and I have been left out of the inheritance as according to my parents they've done so much for me. I have said thanks on many occasions though for everything they have done.

But I have tried 3 times with them and every single time I try I am pushed back further away. My dad hasn't bothered to message/phone within this time which is very unusual of him as its not like him not to and my mum has only in the last month has said to me twice you haven't come round to see me.

Being left out of the disinheritance, being left out of family things and excluded and being criticised when I did go round is really the main reasons why I don't go round.

I have tried to tell them 3 times about how I feel but they say it's me creating problems in my head.

So am I wrong to feel this way and not go round? My 2 sisters are practically no help either

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