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AIBU to be offended about OMG what a complete Aisling

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MrsIntrigued · 22/08/2018 09:37

I recently read an article about the book OMG what a complete Aisling and a lot of what the authors said about their main character could have been written about me. AIBU to be annoyed/offended given that they say it started as a Facebook joke and have now made a 3 book deal and planning a film out of it?? See below quote - what is actually wrong with any of those things and why would it make someone want to run a mile from you?

'Aisling writes “suits you” under pictures of people holding babies on Facebook. As well as being a slave to brown mascara, she’s also dedicated to bootcut jeans. She can’t get her head around why people love avocados so much. And as for brunch! What’s wrong with sticking to eggs at breakfast and a nice big sandwich at 1pm? Now, she might sound like the type of person you’d run a mile from, but Aisling is a great friend, a good laugh, and will definitely mind the handbags on a night out.'

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ElspethFlashman · 22/08/2018 09:39

But you havent read the actual book?

Aisling is a country girl, that's all. And I've read the book and she's lovely.

Racecardriver · 22/08/2018 09:41

Yep, that just sounds like they have conpilsted a lost of her most lame attributes.

JackietheBackie · 22/08/2018 09:42

I haven't read it so can't say whether it is offensive or not, but that sounds like quite an affectionate description of a lovely ordinary person like meself and lots of my friends. I think it is popular because people see themselves in it rather than people sneering.

I am a great big culchie though so not much offends me.

LaurieMarlow · 22/08/2018 09:42

You're overthinking it OP.

It's more about taking the piss out of 'notions' if anything.

And fair play to them for getting the book deal.

ElspethFlashman · 22/08/2018 09:43

Fellow culchie here too fist bump

Honestly I related massively to her healthy appetite, lol.

ElspethFlashman · 22/08/2018 09:43

#notions. Favourite hashtag of all time.

JackietheBackie · 22/08/2018 09:43

Disclaimer - I do love both avocados and brunch as well as breakfast and a sandwich.

MissusGeneHunt · 22/08/2018 09:45

I have no idea about this book but Aisling sounds like a good person to me!!

What's a culchie?

Quangot · 22/08/2018 09:46

I'd run a mile from the author TBH.

MilkTwoSugarsThanks · 22/08/2018 09:48

what is actually wrong with any of those things and why would it make someone want to run a mile from you?

There's nothing wrong with any of those things, but if you're in a friendship group it's usual to have similar likes / dislikes and have similar interests. Sounds like they've listed the things that mark her out as different to the rest of her group.

Catzpyjamas · 22/08/2018 09:52

I think you need to read the book / Facebook page to understand the relatable humour of OMGWACA. There's a bit of Ais in all of us.
(I entirely relate to the need for a good cardigan).

CalonGlas · 22/08/2018 09:52

It's a really affectionate, gentle book, and Aisling is an utter dote. I missed her for a bit when I'd finished it.

JackietheBackie · 22/08/2018 09:56

A culchie is someone who grew up in the Irish countryside. You don't become a culchie however until you move into an urban areas when your glorious country ways are noticed and commented on! Can be both a compliment and an insult.

That would my take on it anyway.

Strugglingtodomybest · 22/08/2018 09:58

I've never heard of this book, but I'm another who can definitely relate to the need for a good cardigan, my friends take the piss about it!

DrMantisToboggan · 22/08/2018 09:58

Some Jackeens think anyone who grew up outside of Dublin is a culchie. It’s an elastic term Smile

FASH84 · 22/08/2018 09:59

The book is lovely and Aisling is depicted in a very favourable way, YABU to judge something you haven't read.

Catzpyjamas · 22/08/2018 10:00

@Strugglingtodomybest, it's definitely worth a read!

MadisonAvenue · 22/08/2018 10:03

Brown mascara? What's wrong with that?

IfIWasABirdIdFlyIn2ACeilingFan · 22/08/2018 10:04

Oh this is a brilliant book! You should definitely read it OP. Aisling is a lovely character. And yes, like so many of us! Not offensive at all.

ElspethFlashman · 22/08/2018 10:08

In the first chapter she wakes up in the horrors the morning after attending a big wedding and realises, aghast, that it's 10.52 and the cooked breakfast (included in the price) finishes at 11. She makes it downstairs in time with seconds to spare.

I've been that soldier.....

MidniteScribbler · 22/08/2018 10:09

I really don't understand avocado worship.

MrsIntrigued · 22/08/2018 10:09

If it's supposed to be relatable humour that's fair enough. I would probably enjoy the book tbf, it's more the way the authors were discussing how it started with them saying who are these women that buy brown mascara etc etc and then continues the list of things I have done or would do. The article made it sound like no one would want to be or even be associated with a person like Aisling!

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MissusGeneHunt · 22/08/2018 10:11

Thanks @JackietheBackie!

JackietheBackie · 22/08/2018 10:12

We are all Aisling, deep down inside. Strip away our notions and Aisling is the pure heart inside all of us.....

MrsIntrigued · 22/08/2018 10:13

MadisonAvenue my thoughts exactly. It's perfect for me with my pale skin and looooong eyelashes. Some black mascaras can make me look unintentionally gothic

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