Putting 2 and 2 together and making 5, regarding dp

[Twistedfateofone]

My trust in dp has gone. A while back I caught him messaging a woman from Canada, telling her how wonderful she is and running me into the ground. I left the same day. He apologised. Cut her off. Said all the right things.

Fast forward 4 months and I went to Italy with a friend. While away I noticed £170 drawn out of the account, and now I've woke up and found a carrier bag for forbidden planet down my side of the bed.

Forbidden planet is all comic book and fantasy stuff. Dp is not into that at all.

Am I being paranoid, because right now I have no idea what to think and I've just realised my trust has been severely broken in the past. I don't trust him any more. I want to ask but I think I need to wait until he gets home to see his reaction.

Maybe I am paranoid...

I'd wait and do a bit more digging to see what I could find first. Can you check his messages or emails somehow?

Could they not be birthday presents for a friend or family member?

A present for someone? I don't think it's that suspicious apart from his past

He never buys presents for any family as he doesn't talk to them, he has one friend... If it was for him I don't know why it wouldn't be mentioned.

It's so hard to keep quiet and keep digging. The last time I checked his messages he left his phone at home. I'm not sure he'd be so stupid again.

It sucks, we've been together almost 8 years and before 4 months ago I had the most trust I've ever had in anybody.

A bag of stuff from Forbidden Planet isn't exactly a romantic gift. Ask him who it's for.

@emma I know, hes not romantic though, he'll buy things whatever the person is into. He used to buy me pencils because I love drawing

Have you looked in the bag to see what's in it?

It's empty. No receipt, nothing

Ask him?

Does he ever buy from charity shops? Might be a recycled bag ?

The bag is new and never buys from charity shops. I've asked him, first time he ignored the message like it wasn't there, second time he's just not replied to it.

I'd ring him.

Well, he's blatantly ignoring it. He's been online and still no reply. I don't like to ring because he's working but I'm not feeling too positive

I buy from them, they sell all kinds of tv and film stuff, not just comic books and fantasy stuff. Tshirts, mugs, toys, books on all kinds of subjects etc.