So my dd4 loves her dad and her granny and cousin more than she loves me. She goes to her grans a few times a week whilst I am at work and they are really great so I get it tbh, but she quite openly tells me that she loves them more than she loves me. She went away with her gran and cousin for a few days and when I asked if she would miss me she said not really because I much prefer being with them anyway - but that she would miss daddy lots 😳 I know I probably am bu to be abit upset over it, but it makes me wonder what's wrong with me, what am I doing wrong that she doesn't really love me? She is completely besotted with her dad so I get that that's fine, he thinks she says it to wind me up knowing it would upset me, but why would a 4 year old do that? Aibu to be sad she doesn't love me more than other members of or family?