I have split from stbx. We are still all living in the same house, more than a year later. He refuses to move out, I can’t move out (sahm to 3 disabled dc, he is financially controlling so I don’t have enough money to move out).
The long and he short of it is, he wants to keep the house, but won’t come out and say this. The house represents around 50% of asset split, so while I couldn’t really care where dc and I end up living, it makes sense (to me) to not uproot them unnecessarily and to try to keep as much stability for them as possible.
I had a notification (of interest) from a local estate agent about a property I had never heard of before. On querying, it seems that stbx has registered interest, and put in an offer (without even viewing it!) on my behalf
AIBU to be hacked off about this? It’s just another control thing. I realise one of us has to move, I know he is attempting to make it be me and the dc, but to actually choose and offer on a house without even involving me (house is not one I would choose, and there are others in the area which suit better in same price range) with the intention that dc and I are the ones to move into it is surely beyond unreasonably controlling?!