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To think my friend is lying too me ..or am I too suspicious?

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columbo3 · 18/08/2018 22:32

My friend owes me £50.
She told me she couldn't afford to pay me.
Last night she said a guy was coming to hers who she's dating.
Two of her friends were having a night out but she told me she couldn't go as she was skint.

She rang me last night at 8 pm saying this guy was at work till 10pm so she might pop to a friends house (she would never tell me that,then she kept saying but I'm not going out with my other friends as I'm skint)

Now I have one of her particular friends on snap chat (and she Snapchat's so much )
Last night tho no Snapchat's on her story(didn't think anything of it till today )
Now this particular friend has just uploaded pics of the night out to Facebook and the pics were of her snapchat story ..(now I didn't see that and on my Snapchat story she hasn't uploaded )

So basically my friends friend has blocked me last night so I couldn't see her story (only reason is because my friend was out with them and didn't want me to know as she owes me cash and saying she's skint)

A hour ago my friend rang saying her and her date watched a scary movie last night ..yet she didn't know what it was called or what it was about..then said the guy wasn't employed at the minute (yet told me he was at work)

Il put it out there I couldn't give a damn if she goes out or not ..but the fact she's clearly gone out then got her friend to block me ...then lied about it.
Do you think I'm right?

OP posts:
columbo3 · 19/08/2018 09:33

The crazy thing is if she had just said she was going out I would have wanted her to have a good night.
I hate liars..

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BubblesThaDragoon · 19/08/2018 12:15

She sounds like she’s lying, can’t even keep her story straight. I really think it’s pathetic when adults do this... is she 14?

columbo3 · 19/08/2018 12:42

39!!
I'm just going to let it drop,it's pointless and childish.
I was annoyed last night but more to worry about than that.

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BubblesThaDragoon · 19/08/2018 12:48

You might as well tbh, she’ll just try to lie her way out of it or make out your paranoid. Just don’t lend her money in the future and tbh I would probably keep her at arms length going forward. I hate liars as well, especially when there was no need for her to lie! You’d agreed October so she’s just dug a hole and made herself look silly for no reason !

Wetwashing00 · 19/08/2018 12:56

FYI She’s not a friend, definitely not the type Of friend you should be lending money to.

Be polite till October, judge how much of a friend you want her to be depending on if she pays you or not.

Comment on the Facebook photos (just so she’s seen your comment and knows you’ve seen them)

And definately delete the snapchat friend.

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