Father in law has a new partner that he has been seeing for around a year. We met her when they came over (usually live abroad) back in March. The first meeting was ok, she seemed a little odd but I thought it was perhaps the cultural difference.
They then came back recently in June. I spent 3 days alone with her and FIL. During this time I witnessed from her a lot of emotionally abusive behaviour towards FIL. Firstly she kept taking his phone off of him and refusing to give it back to him, she refused to be in any photos and almost had a breakdown that she thought I'd taken a photo of her, she also told me he is a 'player', then she implied there was something going on between him and i, and the last thing was she started to physically attack him in our home, DH saw this and said to either stop or get out.
We then find out that fil doesn't know anything about her and has never met her family, by anything I mean her proper name, her surname, where she lives. Literally nothing! Obviously this screams alarm bells at me.
We are due to meet up as a family this weekend, DH said to fil he wants to know who she is before we agree, the new woman then calls DH saying she can't tell him anything as "the government are speaking with her family as one member is very important and has made positive changes for the world" also that she has worked for the FBI and CIA and there will be a movie out about her family soon.
Now, am I being unreasonable to say I don't believe this story one bit, so much that I laughed, and I do not want her anywhere near my DC? At the moment I can't make up my mind if she's a con artist or mentally unwell. She has a passport and has gotten into this country without hassle, but of course that could be a fake. I'm just very uneasy now about the whole situation and cannot believe that fil has introduced this woman into our lives and homes.