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to move to a different country with my dad?

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HoldingOutForAutumn · 14/08/2018 23:29

I've applied for an amazing job opportunity in Scotland. I adore my dad, and he adores my DD. He's Scottish, and wants to move with us. We would both be much better off financially. And he could help with my DD, though I'd pay him for this. Realistically though, I'm 24 and don't want to be living with him forever. AIBU?

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HugeGlassofMalbec · 14/08/2018 23:30

Sounds perfect! Everyone's happy... there's no losers. Do it.

Ansumpasty · 14/08/2018 23:33

Have you spoken about how long you are actually going to be living together?

You’re relationship sounds lovely, both for your and your daughter. However, are you single? What happens when you meet someone and eventually want to move in together? Things might get tricky and feelings might get hurt, so that’s something to consider.

What about moving to Scotland together but aim to live separately?

Ansumpasty · 14/08/2018 23:35

Your! * Duh, blame the tiredness

redastherose · 14/08/2018 23:36

Could you get somewhere where you each had your own place but next door or nearby? You will need your own space (both of you) if not immediately then eventually.

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