The Mr popped the question and I'm engaged. It's still a very new engagement and no plans in place.
For me, there's so much happening and so much problems within my family, so much has gone south. It will probably be a long engagement.
There's then the future to consider too for example where are we going to live once married? At the moment, I live at home, as does he.
I work hard but it's definitely not going to carry me forward into the future. I may never be able to afford a mortgage. I will need to change my job too. In the hope of getting a better income. As for what to do, I don't know.
Right now, a slight issue:
Me and my now fiance were chatting, vaguely and I said something on the lines of perhaps a wedding quite from family and friends and getting married abroad, just the two of us. He's not too keen on that one and would like a wedding at home. He was considering his large family in that one.
It's just, my family is fairly broken. Some siblings living abroad, others not speaking to others, a mother that is relying a lot on me for a lot of things.
My engagement is still only very new and already my mother is saying things and saying what way she wants things and nearly planning things and the demands are there.
I don't want any hassle and I want small and low key.