Ok so try to make a long story short.
Me and my partner have been together nearly 7 years. We have a 6yo together.
We have had DA issues in the past but have gone through mediation and so forth with SS and DV support workers. Things on that side have improved.
Now I work mon - thurs 9-3 and evenings 5-12 I also do sat and sun 9-5 he works tues 9:30-2 thurs 9-2 and fri, sat, sun 6-9 (sorry if that was confusing) when I come home from work on his days off (or any other day) he hasn’t cooked or cleaned and I have to do this things after a long shift. Daily duties like taking meat out from the freezer, feeding thee cats or just putting ds in the shower don’t get done! Now when he does do it (odd occasion) he does it with a sulky teenager attitude as though he shouldn’t and I should be grateful that he is! I ask him to take out the bins and he will keep saying he will do it in a minute but will go in the bath or sit on the Xbox until I’ve done it. He cooked one night while I was at work but when I came home I couldn’t sit and eat I had to wash up a plate and clean the kitchen first, whereas I make sure it’s all prepared and clean waiting for him.
AIBU to get really pissed off about this!!! We both work, I do more hours although it isn’t a competition but even in the mornings when I have to get me and ds ready he will stay in bed to the very last minute to get ‘all’ his sleep!! I’m getting really pissed off with it!