Posting for traffic, NC'd
DH and I are late 30's. Married 10 years and have 2 wonderful kids
Have a great marriage. No massive issues, work well as a team and are very supportive of one another. We have a lot of love and respect for each other
Here is my aibu
Last year I miscarried
We hadn't been trying for a baby so it all came as a shock
It was stressful and emotionally draining, I required surgery and was quite set back by it all
We said at the time we would hold off making a decision on whether to have more babies as it was too hard to talk about
He told me during the week that he definitely doesn't want any more babies
I'm gutted
I really feel like I do.. like I have a real yearning to just have one more
I don't feel like my family is complete
He does
I'm so sad
I'm not annoyed at him, nor angry, but I'm really fucking sad.
Aibu to feel this way?
He says he wants to enjoy the financial stability we now have and doesn't want to go through all the uncertainty and struggle of pregnancy, mat leave, child care etc
I'm devastated and I just don't know how to move on right now
I feel like someone has given me some awful news. I can't stop thinking about it
Keen to hear views and experiences
Tia