Hi all
Been with OH 11 years now we have 2 DC together. I have been a SAHM for two years now and really want to get back to work, I had an interview for a job the other day (first interview in over a year) and was told I would hear the outcome Friday afternoon (today) my partner was working. I received an email saying that I didn't get the job even tho I was told I would receive a phone call sometime in the afternoon. He was an hour late home, and told me he had nipped into his old work place to talk to someone. I was slightly annoyed but said nothing (he knew I was expecting the call this afternoon so expected him home straight away so I could take the call in peace and quiet, without two DCs and eldest had a friend round) then he's home ten mins I ask how his day was, and nothing, he doesn't ask if I've heard back from the job.So I inform him I didn't get the job. He sympathises then quickly moves on about his own job and soon to be career move. I feel this was slightly insensitive given that I was very upset at not getting the job. I go for a shower come down then explain how upset I am he didn't bother to ask me how my interview outcome went, I had to inform him. He has seen me mope and cry and become lonely and desperate for work, it's something very important to me, I feel I have lost myself and miss the social aspect of working. He states he just forgot and moved on.
We ended up arguing, he's had a dilemma in his own job lately and I have literally spent hours sitting discussing it with him going over all options and scenarios and helped him make a decision. I mentioned the other week I helped him go doctors over work related stress he laughed and said I did F* all to help (I rang n made the appt, dropped kids with my mum to go with him n bloody spoke to the doctor with him!) yet when I was pregnant n had anxiety he didn't even come an appointment with me!! I'm so sick of his selfish behaviour!!
Aibu to seriously consider re evaluating who I'm sharing my life with here?