Ex is on holiday...

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PierrotDuvets · 09/08/2018 20:14

... Let it drop by accident it's his second holiday for him and his DW in 4 weeks (no kids). He cancelled contact with DC the last two BH weekends too as he was on trips away.

I'm really not jealous, honestly, SM is lovely but I can't afford to take DC away on holiday for the last few years as I'm a FT carer for DD1 who has autism and on benefits as a carer as bad to leave my job.

AIBU that DD2 should not be left out just because DD1 can't go on holiday.

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RomanyRoots · 09/08/2018 20:20

Aw, this is awful. You say that sm is lovely, can you talk to her and ask for a possibility of them taking her out more/ short break.
It sounds like they can afford it and it isn't fair she should be left out.
Does your dh support you financially and why doesn't he offer you respite from dd1 so you get a break?
it sounds like he's a crap Dad.

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PierrotDuvets · 09/08/2018 20:41

Romany I don't have contact with her myself and tbf, she's not responsible for our DC. I don't have a DH or DP, I've been single for 10 years.

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Tistheseason17 · 09/08/2018 22:06

Their Dad should be looking after them, too

KateGrey · 09/08/2018 22:07

Both kids are his? That’s really shit. I have kids with autism and it is hard going.

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