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To remind people to google yourselves and manage your online image!!

303 replies

MoanaMum · 09/08/2018 14:18

I am currently recruiting for two high profile posts in our company. I've had some great CVs and applications through, but if candidates think we won't google people and check social media they are a bit naive, and unfortunately it can really change the impression a potential employer is left with. So if you are looking for jobs, take a moment to go through what your FB page looks like from an outsider, your twitter, etc and do google your name!! Just come across one which, well, just wow!!

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YaLoVeras · 10/08/2018 21:50

Photobucket!
Even back then pre paranoia i used my middle name and mother's sur name for photobucket.

JustHereForThePooStories · 10/08/2018 21:54

DD was involved in the recruitment for a new HT at her high performing very serious secondary school recently. I googled the name of one of the applicants

Wow. I wouldn’t go throwing that information above it. Your daughter really shouldn’t have shared information about a candidate with you.

YaLoVeras · 10/08/2018 21:56

I was thinking the same!

Oblomov18 · 10/08/2018 22:03

I've googled myself many times. Never found anything about me ever because there are 100's of people called this name.

MadMaryBoddington · 10/08/2018 22:13

I’m easy to find online because I have an unusual name, shared by only one other person (or so I’ve ever found).

The other person looks like me, funnily enough. Fortunately she is in another country and everything related to her comes up in another language, so it should be obvious who is who.

My stuff is either to do with my profession, or local newspaper articles in which I appear winning trophies for my daffodils Grin. Her stuff is sporty or motivational shite - I hope no one ever thinks the latter is mine! But it could be an awful lot worse.

Robbo78 · 10/08/2018 22:28

Whilst I understand what your saying, you have made your point in a slightly condescending, holier than thou tone. Shame really.

Waterfall010 · 10/08/2018 23:12

Good point. I’ve recently been looking at a childcare website as we are looking for a childminder, there were some babysitters listed there too.
Quite a few have profile pictures doing the whole pout thing, or looking dressed up on an evening out, not embarrassing or anything but also not really advertising to me how great you are with toddlers on a wet Wednesday afternoon while their mum’s at work.
I tended to go for the ones with pictures of toys etc first.
Just thought I’d mention that in case people are also using websites with a profile photo and want to get more interest!!

SquishySquirmy · 10/08/2018 23:42

I'm amazed by the things some people say on Linkedin!
A few people treat it like Facebook, and it's so cringy.
How dumb do you have to be, to post sexist jokes or bitter sounding pa gripes on Linkedin of all places????

NewToCats · 10/08/2018 23:45

When I google all the name possibilities I have (nickname, maiden name etc) it appears that my alter egos all lived in the 1700-1800's. I am both male and female. I am American. I am very much dead!

No chance of finding me anywhere Grin

longtompot · 10/08/2018 23:50

My dh shares his name with a not so famous dj Hmm He is not a dj.

I can't remember what mine comes up as, better check.

toastedbeagle · 11/08/2018 00:03

It's a fair point ... I was recruiting nannies and genuinely torn between two. Checked out their Facebook profiles and the younger one had a profile pic of her drinking 2 pints of snakebite and black... didn't go for her. I did mention it to the recruitment agency though as a learning point. Not going to leave my 18m old with someone if there's an iota of doubt.

CosyLulu · 11/08/2018 09:03

Dd has mental health issues and when we got the name through of her new psychiatrist, I googled it to show dd what she looked like - v unusual name and only one on FB. Her entire profile was cleavage, tits out stuff. No mention of career so I thought it couldn’t be her. Dd and I go along for the first appointment and it is her! Looking v demure in a blouse and skirt. Anyway she turned out to be amazing and dd loves her but isn’t that such a dumb thibg to do in socisl media with that kind of career?

DisgraceToTheYChromosome · 11/08/2018 09:17

Because of the peculiarities of Google, my name doesn't link to me personally. If you modify it a bit, you get my FB page, a couple of small businesses, two bits of journalism from a decade ago, and a dead American.

CigarsofthePharoahs · 11/08/2018 09:28

I googled my name and just got pictures of a MMA fighter. Clearly not me! Also lots of adverts for fortune tellers.
All my social media is private and I'm clearly a very boring person so there's nothing to see.

Xenia · 11/08/2018 09:50

Those who think they cannot be found be aware of

  1. Reverse picture searching on google - the recruiter can take your photo - if you supplied one for the job and stick it on google and search it.
  2. Address - giving your address on your CV will narrow you down quite a bit and for £3 they can do a Land Registry search of the public land register if you own a house.
Cookiefan · 11/08/2018 10:02

I wonder how long until people say its discrimination to not accept me for a job based on my views, like the Britain first guy?

I wouldn't have accepted them either, but I think that will happen eventually.

CosyLulu · 11/08/2018 10:31

If you google my name you get a lot of pictures of porn stars! Grin

safariboot · 11/08/2018 10:57

On the other hand there are possible discrimination issues. Someone's Facebook profile could indicate things like their sexuality or religious views, things an employer may not discriminate based on and is best if they avoid even knowing.

CosyLulu · 11/08/2018 12:02

I don't understand why people don't put their Facebook settings to private ...

DGRossetti · 11/08/2018 12:07

I don't understand why people don't put their Facebook settings to private ...

Because some companies (more US based, but remember what happens there, comes here) take that as a no-no in itself. Remember nothing to hide if you've nothing to fear.

And, again, in the US, having a private profile is no good if a recruiter demands your password(s) to check it out anyway.

WhentheDealGoesDown · 11/08/2018 12:09

Probably best just not to have Facebook, I manage perfectly OK without it

YaLoVeras · 11/08/2018 12:10

I wouldnt work for an employer who asked for my facebook password.

YaLoVeras · 11/08/2018 12:11

Or deal with a recruitment agency who asked!

WhentheDealGoesDown · 11/08/2018 12:12

Asking for your Facebook password is like asking for your email password so they can check them.

YaLoVeras · 11/08/2018 12:15

So they want to see private messages and what you post for friends??? Do any employers or recruiters actually ask this??