This thread has struck a chord, a big hefty one and the diet/MH connection has been discussed consistently because I cannot prepare my own food now. As you can see by my username, I'm not working now, because despite me asking, until 2 years ago I wasn't taken seriously. I became suicidal and my energy levels so bad I was unable to make a cup of tea. I was (still am) being treated for depression, but, in comparison to other issues that is a fly itching my nose. If they had listened when I said "I can see 6 of everything" and "I can't swallow properly and keep choking" and countless other comments I may have benefitted from appropriate treatment in a timely manner.
I worked hard in my work, I had a brilliant career and I absolutely loved it. I was studying my 2nd masters, travelling as a solo female to weird wonderful places BUT I knew I was unwell and noone would listen. "When you have depression..." or "if you stopped drinking coffee" (I don't, they assume way too much!) there was always some annoying phrase.
I cannot tell you haw sad I feel right now. Because everything was wrongly attributed to depression, they missed motor neurone disease and an extremely rare eye condition so I am now legally blind to boot (please, don't start the old 'how can you type on mumsnet' jokes/questions).
As soon as the motor neurone was diagnosed I saw an amazing team of therapists (OT/PT/SPEECH) and within a week they got me eating properly again and my energy levels increased. My GP has ASSUMED I wasn't eating because of depression. He needn't have assumed because I kept bloody well telling him!
My low energy was also put down to depression, only it wasn't, it was muscle weakness caused by motor neurone disease. And on it went, all those symptom and none of them were depression.
I know that with my condition an early diagnosis wouldn't change the outcome. However, my my eye condition could and should have been picked up and treated and I wouldn't be blind.
I joked with a colleague after my motor neurone disease diagnosis "at least I don't have to continually obsess about my suicide plan now! I get the end handed on a plate, no fuss, guilt or blame". Except, it isn't really funny, is it?