My mum’s cousin lives in another country and we don’t really know eachother,I think he saw me once when I was a baby and all contact we have is through Facebook. Anyway he is now on holiday here and contacted me for us to meet. I’m not sure if he meant just me but my mum came along because it’s her cousin and to me he is just a stranger. We met in a little pub and mainly the conversation was between him and my mum about the family etc. When I got home I got a message from him on Facebook saying how I was a lot more attractive in person and asked if I was sure we were related... I just said thank you, to see if the conversation ended there. The reason why I reacted this way was because in the past he has been really inappropriate, always saying how he wished we weren’t related and asking me how old I was and how old my dc was, to then comment on how old I was when I lost my virginity??? Well anyway the messages didn’t stop. He ask me why I couldn’t just ignore the fact that we are related and that he was attracted to me and wanted to take me out on a date because there was nothing wrong with the fact that we are second cousins. I told him that we ARE family and that maybe he feels like we are not because we hardly know each other, but we are still family! He kept on bombarding me with messages as to why I wasn’t interested, even asked if I would be interested in him if we weren’t related. He told me he wanted me to visit him in his country alone and that he would pay for my flights???At this point I just started to ignore him, if he wasn’t family I would have ignored him a long time ago. Next day he apologised but I ignored him, later sent another message asking me how my day was and what I was up to, again I ignored him. I’m just wondering if I am being unreasonable in ignoring him? I never told my mum about how inappropriate he is with me (which started when we became friends on Facebook) and when we all met I was very uncomfortable.