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AIBU to ask on tips to increase my sex drive? I used to want sex all the time, however my sex drive has rapidly slowed down? HELPPPPP

im 24, i don't want sex (def to do with hopefully STBx as he is a lying asshole, who for some reason i feel like i need to the decent thing by and break up face to face!!) however never had a high drive, hormones are fine- TBH, do you feel like you need to increase it for him, or because you want to have it more?

how good is he at it?

I say this because if my husband could only offer what I give myself, then I’m not sure I would be up for it much.

As it is he is really attentive and kind and he makes me happy way before he gets anything from me.

Also we have to help each other with chores, if one or the other does everything we don’t have any energy.

Plus we make time. Every Thursday and Saturday if no other.

It works for us and we want it more and more.

There are other things that have improved it.

I enjoy a LIGHT touch. It’s taken him a long time to really fully understand that.

Also I really, really don’t enjoy having a tongue in my mouth much at all. He was into deep snogging and I honestly hate it. Now we are more into smaller, more playful kisses and it’s so nice.

chipsandgin Wed 08-Aug-18 14:14:06
@Eliza9917 I totally agree - it was only the specifying weight thing that was odd, it's not advisable to recommend (as the pp did) that getting down to 8/9 stone is a good idea when you don't know the OP's height or body type. I was a personal trainer and my absolute minimum weight to stay within recommended guidelines, have an ideal body fat percentage of 20% and a BMI of 20.8 is 11 stone - and I'd still within the healthy range at 13 stone. If I were 8 stone for example my BMI would be 15 and I'd look skeletal - at risk of osteoporosis, periods stopping etc. - you never know whether you are talking to someone with an eating disorder, that was all!

I agree completely, I was just pointing out that weight can have an affect - but of course everyone's ideal weight is different.