Yep, married one before his true colours came out.
Was pregnant when his "real" behaviour came out and went on to marry him as I thought I was being hormonal with the pregnancy.
He made me think I was cracking up.
I wasn't.
Ignored me for weeks. I mean literally not one word if I asked him a question, walked out the room.
Disappearing for days and then reappearing but blaming it on me.
Emotional abuse, financial abuse you name it.
Still dealing with the fucker now over our daughter and it just drains me wondering what he will try next.
Run away as fast and as far as you can.
You will feel amazing while they want you but once they decide they don't they will make you feel as if it's your fault as they can never be held accountable for anything.
I was reading about this the other day and they apparently only tend to want to be with people they admire or aspire to be like.
However, because they have a superior sense of self worth they will drag you down till they don't admire or aspire to be like you anymore. Basically they will try and break you so they then feel better than you.