DS got an Amazon tablet for his birthday. I put limits on the amount of time he goes on it but I allow him longer if we are on long journeys so he is kept occupied.
When DS goes on long journeys with his dad he doesn't make sure DS has things to keep himself entertained. DS is due to travel for several hours in the next week and I feel bad for not sending him with the tablet. When he goes to stay with his dad the tablet doesn't go with him. Items which go there are rarely returned with DS so that's one reason. I also want to make sure it's well looked after. Things have been broken. My main concern is that it's linked to my Amazon, Netflix and various other accounts so I am reluctant to let it get into my ex's hands. For context he was/is emotionally, verbally, financially abusive and controlling. His background is IT so I worry he would be able to get into it despite the security set up. He previously tried to hack my computer.
I know it belongs to DS and should go where he is rather than being kept at home although nothing from his dad's house ever comes here with him. AIBU not to suggest it goes with him?