Things said in anger

[Belle1616]

Ok so.. with out too much backstory AIBU for thinking you don’t say stuff in the heat of the moment you don’t mean?

I have a 1 year old and my OH and I have not been getting on because he is moody because he does not have much spare cash atm. He literally sulks. I get he’s depressed and unhappy, but he has said to me over the weekend. That he’s angry and he doesn’t want to talk to me because what he will say will make me want to hang myself... and that he’s only with me because of our child, if it wasn’t for him he would of been gone long ago..

He has since said to me he was angry, that’s why he said that but will not apologise.

I have told him to leave aibu?

YANBU. He sounds awful, what a terrible thing to hear

YANBU! Good for you giving him his marching rders

That’s really nasty. He’s supposed to be your partner, to love and support you. Yes we get upset with our partners at times and we might say spiteful things we regret, but to say he wants to say things that will make you want to hang yourself..frankly it’s disgusting and quite scary. It’s not your fault he is low on cash and you shouldn’t be made to suffer if he’s unhappy.

Get out, he’s toxic - you deserve better ❤️

Yes it is toxic.

It’s just some people have told me I shouldn’t be so quick to break it off as there is a child involved.