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Dh cheating?

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supportneeded · 05/08/2018 20:48

Hi, looking for support as can't get this out of my head
I was looking through dh phone today and found two messsages on instagram to girls saying he would love to see more of them. Can't see any replies unless he's deleted those.
I know I shouldn't have been looking through his phone but sometimes curiosity gets the better of me and I am very insecure.
Do you think he's cheating?

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PurpleFlower1983 · 06/08/2018 08:30

What a twat. Confront him.

supportneeded · 06/08/2018 08:51

Will get the courage up to do it tonight when we are both home from work. I hate confrontation but hate this feeling more

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supportneeded · 06/08/2018 20:47

I confronted him. Then lay there crying while he apologised profusely. He hasn't answered why he did it. After a while he left the room and came back crying saying he's ruined his life. I've sent him to the shop for cigarettes as I'm so stressed. I quit a year ago

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Meringues4breakfast · 07/08/2018 01:24

Are you ok? Hope he is honest with you now.

supportneeded · 07/08/2018 06:47

Still very stressed. We had another talk before we went to bed and he's said he will delete all social media as he doesn't need it. I said that's up to him if he feels that is what he needs to do. We are also going to put in steps to get through this and spend more quality time together. It won't be an easy process and will take time but I do think he's seen sense.

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PurpleFlower1983 · 07/08/2018 07:52

Just be careful OP. I wish you all the best but in my experience, evidence found is usually the tip of the iceberg. Be vigilant with that one.

supportneeded · 07/08/2018 07:55

I am going to. He's not going to get away with this lightly

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